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Dr. Tom LaHue
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Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching
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Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Johnson Univ, FL. He holds 3 Master's Degrees, including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 3 grandchildren.
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More info at www.tomlahue.com/
#enneagram
Social Media Links: linktr.ee/drtomlahue
Facebook: twlahue/
Twitter: twlahue
Instagram: twlahue
Podcast: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahue
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It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure!
My Daughters' Info:
Grace's UA-cam Channel:
/ @gracerutherford1567
Kaylee's UA-cam Channel:
/ @kayleerademaker5377
Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Johnson Univ, FL. He holds 3 Master's Degrees, including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 3 grandchildren.
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I Don't Care: Why You Shouldn't Either...
Do you care too much about the results? Or, about what other people will think? In this video, we will talk about getting over that and caring about what is most important to you!
Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching
More info at www.tomlahue.com/
Social Media Links: linktr.ee/drtomlahue
Facebook: twlahue
Twitter: twlahue
Instagram: twlahue
Podcast: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahue
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It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure!
Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.
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Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching
More info at www.tomlahue.com/
Social Media Links: linktr.ee/drtomlahue
Facebook: twlahue
Twitter: twlahue
Instagram: twlahue
Podcast: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahue
Also available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify
Patreon Supporters: www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026
It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure!
Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.
#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs, self-improvement, personal growth, motivation, resilience, overcoming obstacles, relationships, marriage advice, life tips, goal setting, mental strength, self-confidence, self-esteem, personal development, emotional intelligence, success mindset, inspiration, productivity tips, stress management, mindfulness, mental health, positive thinking, achieving goals, life coaching, self-help, motivational videos
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Dr. Tom I personally LOVE your videos! Although this video, I purposely searched for it in aims of learning more of the healthy patterns of enneagram 4. We want to know these traits in more depth; and appreciate them too! 🥰 New video idea maybe?
Yes, someone who INSPIRES YOU to be better!
TOM HAS BEAUTIFUL EYES 😊
In my experience, flip the first and third mbti letter for the best friend couple
Women being dramatic is challenging men to step up in the relationship, subconsciously
9w1- I do unashamedly love movies and shows, but I also spent a lot of time doing art, singing in 2 choirs, exploring new places and so much more. I have often felt relatively balanced about it... until March of this year when I got a new job. Ever since, I hardly do art and instead of working on my creative entrepreneurial goals, I have been finding myself spending so much time watching tv...I used to at least watch tv AND do art, but sometimes I just look across the room at my art table and think "Whatever...what's the point. I'll do it tomorrow." But then I don't. So I think I am definitely off balance in the movie/show department right now.
The direction, not the goal
Yes, numb to fear and blind to odds when I can’t not do whatever I need to do
thank you so much, Tom.
At your best you look like a 2 😮
That's Right!
True true
Thanks for watching and commenting!
Excellent video to start my day with. I’ll be thinking in this throughout the day.
Awesome to hear that! Keep that positive energy going throughout your day!
Great video Tom❤
Hey, thanks for checking out the video!
Wow… exactly what I needed to see today. Incredible. (Just recorded my first podcast attempt last night so this is perfect). Thanks man!!!
So glad this resonated with you! Keep up the great work on your podcast!
It's a great video, but it doesn't have any tags. The video tag is the most important.
Thanks for the tip
@@twlahue Welcome
Awesome video keep up the excellent content.
Thanks, will do!
After watching this and almost every videos of your channel, I feel like i am 7. But sometimes, I doubt whether I'm a type 1. Because when my happiness is gone, I will make-up my mind thinking "That's my fate or It's all my fault" or something like that. But I'm mostly afraid of being a bad person. If I felt I did hurt someone or did a wrong thing, I immediately want to make it right and prove that I'm a good person. I'm an introvert and i'm not a funny, bubbly person like most 7s. Also I think my MBTI type is INFJ. Other than these, all of the things which you described as a 7 are matching with me.
It sounds like you've been doing a lot of self-reflection, which is great for personal growth.
@@twlahue can you give me some guidance to figure out whether I'm 7 or 1?
Lol. Not Dr Tom’s 7ness going to 1 when talking about 4s!!! 🤣👏 And also, thank you for all that you do to help us understand the enneagram and ourselves 😊
Your appreciation means a lot, thank you for watching and learning with me!
As a four, I cannot hide yawning in class and that frustrates the teachers. I think there’s living authentically to a certain extent 😂😂😂
Totally get it! Just be yourself and the right people will appreciate your authenticity.
Minimize needs is spot on.
Less is more, right?
Anger is an empowering emotion to take action!
Totally agree! Anger can be a powerful motivator if channeled in the right direction.
i needed to hear this today, thank you!
You're so welcome!
As I listen, I’m aware that at least in my experience a lot of this has to do with a conflation of information and experiences. Because information is so readily meaningful to me, I can confuse sharing facts, anecdotes, and connections with other ways of sharing myself. Insofar as I buy into that conflation, “I don’t care (about your information)” really can feel like “I don’t care (about you).” While my relationship with information and introversion is certainly beautiful and affirming, I am also fully capable of using its primacy to crowd out my awareness of what kinds of experiences in myself and others make me uncomfortable- such as openly addressing anger etc. It’s that stubbornness, almost an opportunistic solipsism, and its downstream effects that are problematic, not, as some comments on your 5 videos seem to suggest, introversion in itself. I really appreciate that you come to what can be tricky or sensitive subject matter with a clear intent to better understand, to really communicate care, and to value in people simultaneously where they are and where they can be. Thank you for your sincerity.
Thank you for sharing your thoughtful insights and reflections on the topic. It's great to see your genuine engagement with the content.
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nice
This is true
Thank you for watching and commenting!
So good!
Awe, Thanks
So why do I relate to an 8 but I know I have a majority of these 5 traits
It's interesting how we can see ourselves in different Enneagram types! Look into Tri-Types
4w5 here…my paralyzing feelings seem to be shadow…or it’s just my undisciplined 4…
It's common for 4w5s to struggle with intense emotions. Remember, it's all part of the journey!
And when they finally had their cook out they were infested by beetles but they didn't know the difference and thought it was cockroaches and threw the whole food away and never told 5 what happened.
Oh no, what a story! It sounds like quite the unexpected turn of events!
@@twlahue Not by everyone...
My husband is a 6 and I’m a 3 and he’s a Leo on Virgo cusp and I’m a Capricorn and now he’s got confirmed BPD. Are we doomed 😢
Sounds like a cosmic rollercoaster! Hang on tight and enjoy the ride.
What if the toxic (narcissist) is your spouse??? 31 years and I’m exhausted!!! Life has been sucked out! If I didn’t have Jesus, his word and my friends, I’d quit!!!
Thank you for sharing your story. Your strength and resilience are inspiring. Sorry you are going through this.
And actually, I would guess that you are not controlled by your feelings in this case, (otherwise you would have been gone a long time ago) instead you are exhausted by your feelings.
I can't decide if I'm a 9 or a 5. Why can't I choose.
Both are withdrawn types, chances are if your are stuck consider type 9
Thank you
I really appreciate this video. You do a really nice job and in a really nice way.
Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm glad you enjoyed the video.
Good timing for me too 🙏🏼
Perfect!
I really appreciate your insights! I share your videos often. Thank you and God bless you! 🙏
I appreciate that
YES! Thank you for this! Something has gone wrong in our culture where everyone seems so afraid of being exposed as "imperfect" that they're no longer taking necessary risks for growth and for eventual success. Of course there are all kinds of good explanations for the origin(s) and source(s) of this fear...but unless and until we can recognize the huge problems that result from overly fearing failure, we can't and/or won't even ask ourselves the necessary question..."what is it that feels so intolerable about failure? These days, I find it so refreshing when I see anyone who allows themselves to get pulled toward something that interests them, whether they they know the first thing about it or not. There's only one way to learn and that's to just "start somewhere"...and be "willing" to fail....Failures are not "really" failures if we recognize them for what they are...which is "information" that helps us navigate our way through our next attempt.
I'm glad you resonated with the message! It's important to embrace imperfection and take risks for personal growth.
I'm so grateful to be married to my best friend. Last week, we celebrated 18 years together and 16 years married. It saddens me how many couples aren't one another's closest companions. Sure, it means constant work, but it's a worthy investment. Having had otherwise, I greatly appreciate easy-breezy, drama-free days of partnership with my bestie.
Congratulations on your milestone! It's truly heartwarming to hear about your enduring and loving relationship.
I feel like my 6-ness is making me very lonely in life. It seems like when someone does show interest in friendship, it feels like they're the throw caution to the wind types, but I enjoy reading and having deep conversation. It's so hard to find someone who actually wants to think past their noses. Is the answer to just stop thinking? (This is a sincere question. I'm not trying to be snarky. I, honestly, don't know how to relate to people anymore.)
It can be tough to find like-minded individuals, but don't give up! Keep being yourself, and the right people will come into your life.
That is so true
Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts!
This applies to so many aspects of life.
The things you're talking about seem to be the fundamental needs of a man. It's good, but there are things that a woman needs from a husband before they can be friends with him. We will naturally want to be friends with our spouse if he is providing security and takes time to communicate and gives non sexual affection. This is foundational.
I appreciate your insight on the needs of women in a relationship. Building a strong foundation of trust and communication is crucial for any successful partnership.
Very well said
I encourage others. Thanks for encouraging me!
That's great to hear! Keep spreading positivity and encouragement, the world needs more of that!
Godzilla and Jesus never surrender and neither shall We!
Persistence is key in achieving our goals!
Thank you. All I wanted to do all day was give up and I came home and found this. Thankyou
You can do it!
You right! I got my shot loaded right now! Thank you for the advice!!
Thank you for the kind words! It means a lot to hear that you found the advice helpful.
I think it's more a Cassandra complex than a fear of rejection. Pointing out the room is on fire while everyone else debates what colour we should paint the walls is crazy-making. Also, being incapable of surface level relationships, while simultaneously runnning in terror from the co-dependency that masquerades as intimacy in our culture, leaves us feeling like we must just be bad at people. When we run out of energy, or fail to read the room again, or insert some interesting tidbit no one else relates to, we don't *fear* rejection, we're just disappointed and bored by its predictability.
It's interesting how we perceive our interactions with others. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
Might be unexpected coming from a 4, but a couple of the people I admire most are 1’s. And they are so incredible that they absolutely deserve to have fun 🎉
It's great to have role models that inspire you, no matter what their Enneagram type is!
It's like you watch the groups of people who have somehow coalesced together and you never see the IQ of the many combine into a larger value. In fact, studying gatherings it seems the progression is towards a smaller IQ with every addition to the group. And perhaps subconsciously, you have no desire to go down that road, because all that grunt work you've invested in might just go down the tubes as you somehow arrive in the group's mean, mental range. It's like assimilation into "the Borg" or something. Maybe. Kinda sorta.
It's interesting how group dynamics can sometimes lead to unexpected outcomes.
So thats why I tested and got a 5 I've been overwhelmed lately but when I started down this path I really started to resonate with 8s and I feel like I'm definitely an 8
It's great when you find a personality type that really resonates with you!
I needed this.
I'm glad it resonated with you!
I wish your presentations offered more unbiased objectivity
Right... I am sorry. I am just not the guy to do those kinds of videos well... Sorry.